In love I unconditionally accept the evolution of others.
In freedom I have power.
In love I unconditionally accept the evolution of others. Face it you can’t really change anyone else but yourself. That is right readers as much as we would like to change something about our kids, spouses, friends the “jerk” who cut us off in traffic, the rude checker at the supermarket…you get the idea…we cannot.
Changes can only come from inside yourself, the person changing and it is different for each of us. Our timing is our timing when it comes to improving upon or moving on in life. If you can unconditionally accept that others “own” their own lives it frees up your energy to work on your life. Ask yourself this very simple question; in all the time you have been alive have your really been able to change other people? If you are really honest with yourself the answer is always no, no and no.
Trying to change others only causes conflict and resentment in both the person you are trying to change and yourself. Free yourself from this trap and love others unconditionally and know that if they feel the need to “evolve” they will when the time is right for them to do so and not one second sooner.
In freedom I have power. What is freedom? It can mean many things to many people but I believe that the type of freedom that Stuart Wilde in this prayer I am delving into is personal freedom. Personal freedom is the power that only we can give ourselves; the power to forgive yourself and then others. The freedom and personal power that you gain from letting go of the need to “fix” situations, people and things.
Freedom is flow and flow is necessary for a calm and stable relationship with yourself and others. Give yourself permission to be free from the flotsam and Jetsam of other people’s instability. Today, now as you read this give yourself the power and the freedom to say yes or no to anything without guilt and without judgement.
Be a different person today! Be you! Be the wonderful human that you are!